dakarguli bavSvoba

ojaxi, rogorc sazogadoebis ZiriTadi ujredi da gansakuTrebiT bavSvebis zrdisa da keTildReobis bunebrivi garemo, bavSvis pirovnebis da harmoniuli ganviTarebisTvis sruli pirobebis dacvas unda emsaxurebodes, radgan bavSvs swored misi fizikuri da gonebrivi moumwifeblobis gamo esaWiroeba specialuri dacva da zrunva. mSoblebi erToblivad ageben pasuxs bavSvebze zrunvis uzrunvelyofaze, maT fizkur, gonebriv, silier, zneobriv da socialur ganviTarebaze, sazogadoebaSi damoukidebeli cxovrebisaTvis momzadebaze. amitomac miiCneven bavSvis harmoniuli ganviTarebisaTvis mis bunebriv ojaxur garemoSi gazrdas mniSvnelovnad da aucileblad, sadac yvelanairi sabaziso pirobebi unda iyos daculi.

bavSvis uflebebis dacva, maTi interesebis gaTaviseba, maTze zrunvis uzrunvelyofa, es iseTive aqsioma unda iyos, rogorc zrdasrul asakSi adamianebis mxridan sakuTar uflebebze zrunva. es albaT ufro ganviTarebul qveynebSi, sadac sazogadoebrivi cnobiereba im simaRleebs wvdeba, sadac yvelaze mniSvnelovani da sayuradRebo sakiTxebis ugulvelyofas mentalobis da stereotipebis CarCoebSi ar ganixilaven, sadac ar uZebnian gamarTlebas iseT sakiTxebs, rogoric mozardebze Zaladoba da ojaxuri konfliqtebia. aseT Temebs tabus mxolod CvenSi Tu  daadeben, risi miCumaTebac, mxolod bumerangad rom moubrundeba erT mSvenier dRes qveyanasac da sazogadoebasac. imitom, rom dRes mxolod gansja rCeba umTavres iaraRad, Tundac ojaxSi bavSvze Zaladobis, maTi diskriminaciis dros.

mSobelma bavSvi mkacrad dasaja-fizikurad gausworda, sityvieri Seuracxyofa miayena, sxvebis TandaswrebiT Searcxvina `Tavisi adgili miuCina~-kedelTan, bnel oTaxSi, abazanaSi da aiZula saaTobiT efiqra mxolod `Tavis danaSaulze~, rom xval da zeg igive Secdoma ar daeSva, am yvelaferma Sveba moutana ojaxis ufros wevrebs, stumrad myof mezobels, axlobels da gadawyvita, xmamaRla Tu ara, TavisTvis mainc gaefiqrebina_Wkuis saswavlebelia, aseTi Tavneba aRar iqneba. da Tu Tavneba ar iqneba, aRar Seawuxebs sazogadoebas, romelic mieCvia yvelgan da yvelaferSi simSvidis SenarCunebas. hoda swored maSin, roca es Zaladoba viRacis simSvideze gadis, iqneb vifiqroT imazec, ra zinas ayenebs `msxverpls~, romelic mxolod imisTvis daisaja, rom mSobels gacnobierebuli ara aqvs, ratom unda hqondes mas Tavisi nebis Tavisuflad gamoxatvis ufleba. da ra moaqvs erTis am simSvidis fonze miRebul meoris sulier foriaqs, romelic mxolod azianebs da amaxinjebs fsiqikas? ratom hgonia vinmes, rom saaTobiT kedelTan atuzuli bavSvi, mxolod imaze fiqrobs meored ase aRar moiqces da ara imaze, ratom cxovrobs iseT garemoSi, sadac ar cnoben misi, rogorc bavSvis uflebas, sadac mSobeli Tavis wil pasuxismgeblobas ver iRebs mis winaSe, saWirodac ar Tvlis mas gaugos, gaufrTxildes, mis interesebs emsaxuros. amaze dafiqrebuli ki, romelsac yvelaze metad ugrovdeba boRma, brazi da tkivili, xval wamoZaxebebis reJimSi iwyebs mSobelTan urTierTobas, gaRizianebuli xvdeba nebismier gamowvevas sazogadoebis Tu zogadad cxovrebis mxridan_amitomac ibnevian, amitomac kompleqsdebian, amitomac uWirT adgilis damkvidreba sazogadoebaSi. rodesac bavSvi pataraobidanve eCveva, rom mSobeli masze Zaladobs da ufleba aqvs is dasajos, roca imaze dafiqrdeba, vis unda daecva is, roca es sWirdeboda, ramdenad logikuri iqneba SefasebebSi? ramdenad sworad aRiqvams realurs? ramdenad gaacnobierebs pativiscemis grZnobas sxvebis mimarT?_nuTu ar Seawuxebs is, rom mas Tavidanve eqceodnen upativcemulod? Seuracxyofdnen da arcxvendnen sxvebis TandaswrebiTac ki, Tan is adamianebi, visac pirvelebs unda efiqraT mis usafrTxoebaze?

sainteresoa kuTxeSi dayenebuli sakuTari SviliviT, romlisTvisac dasjas  `gamosaworebel~ Terapid miiCneven, erTxel mainc Tu dafiqrebulan mSoblebi ra Sedegebi SeiZleba mohyves bavSvebze Zaladobas? an ratom hgoniaT, rom bavSvebTan xmamaRali saubari, muqara, cema, Cveulebriv movlenad unda aRiqmebodes? me, mSobeli Tu gadaRlili var, an samuSaoTi, an emociebiT, ratom vavaldebuleb bavSvs amis gamo Tavis Tavze itvirTos, Cems mosvenebaze fiqri? an ratom uyurebs mezobeli Cveulebrivad dedas, an mamas, romelic alkohols mijaWvuli, ubralod imis gamo scems Tavis Svils, rom xasiaTis cudi Tvisebebi iRviZebs masSi simTvralis dros? ratom unda miiRos sazogadoebam normalurad, roca mSobeli Tavad wyvets mis Svils dautovos Tu ara magaliTad swavlis ufleba? sityvis, azris gamoxatvis ufleba? ratom xdeba, rom mSobelsa da Svils Soris kamaTis dros yovelTvis cdiloben gaamarTlon mSobeli da xazi gausvan Svilis gauzrdelobas, mxolod imitom, rom ufross gaubeda da Sekadra Sepasuxeba? aq yovelTvis ikargeba Tu ara is simarTle da WeSmariteba, rac normalur sazogadoebaSi swored kamaTSi unda ibadebodes? vin gadawyvita, rom bavSvi, mozardi valdebulia uxmod daemorCilos ded-mamis brZanebebs, gadawyvetilebebs, maSinac ki, roca es winaaRmdegobaSi modis mis interesebTan? da ratom ar vfiqrdebiT imaze, rom bavSvisgan aseTi garemos Seswavlisas gamomuSavebuli Tavdacva, xval mxolod Zalismier meTodebze iqneba dafuZnebuli? da dumils, maSin roca unda vamxeldeT, Tu bumerangis efeqti ara aqvs, ratom momravlda faqtebi, roca ojaxis wevrebs erTmaneTisTvis sasikvdilo ganaCeni gamoaqvT da mama, deda, Svili martivad imeteben erTmaneTs?

ratom ar vaRiarebT, rom es dRevandeli realoba, guSindeli dRidan, damaxinjebuli bavSvobidan modis? roca mSoblebi mentalobas da zne-Cveulebas mxolod imas uwodebs, rom ufrosis sityva kanonia. da es kanoni samarTlebriv CarCoSi imitom unda moeqces, rom xelSi mxolod jiqur motanili ufros-umcrosobis Teoria ar SegvrCes_amaze da kidev imazec, rom Teoriebis potinSi jansaRi, ganaTlebuli, Tavisufali da uflebadaculi momavali Taobis nacvlad, SeSinebuli, dakompleqsebuli, uflebaayrili, gaRizianebuli da garemoSi dakarguli Svilebi ar SegvrCes xelSi, kidev ramden xans dagvWirdeba fiqri?